Paul Focuses on the Basics

Today I read Hebrews 10 where Paul continues to talk about the sacrifice of Jesus Christ for all of us. I find it interesting that Paul is spending so much time talking about this when his audience, to my knowledge anyway, are those who have already accepted Jesus Christ. Very strange indeed.

He has spent the last several chapters focusing on this concept and I really don't understand why at all. I understand that it is a stumbling block for the Jews and that they did not accept Jesus Christ as a whole, but did those who had converted to Christianity also have a hard time accepting Him or coming to terms with the idea that He was the promised Savior? Based on Paul's lengthy explanation and constant repeating of Himself, it would appear so.

Now, this is not so unheard of as our own modern day General Authorities of the Church including our own Prophet, Thomas S. Monson, frequently will talk about the same topics over and over again to make sure that we have it right. They focus on the basics of the Gospel because that is where our focus needs to be. If we allow ourselves to be distracted by what is going on around us, we can all too easily fall by the wayside. This can also happen if we are too focused on those things that are not the basics. We decide our level of commitment to the Gospel, no one else. We decide where our focus is. If we don't take the time to make sure that we are focusing on the basics and becoming perfected, well we are playing with fire to put it mildly.

To those who are tired of hearing about the basics I pose a few questions. Is your faith made perfect? Are you so faithful that you do not commit sin any longer? Is your faith so strong that you have a perfect knowledge of Christ and His Gospel? If the answer to any of those is no, then you are not ready to move on to larger things. Another question, have you no more need of repentance? The answer to this one for all of us is a resounding no. Everyone of us, even President Monson, requires repentance, for most of us on a daily basis. Those of us who are members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints have been baptized, and received the Gift of the Holy Ghost, but do we have a perfect understanding of that gift? Joseph Smith once stated that the one and only thing that sets us apart from other religions was the Gift of the Holy Ghost. If that is the case, shouldn't we devote time and energy to understanding that gift?

When we allow our focus to shift away from these fundamentals, we are allowing Satan to come in and make a home in us. Now, this is not to say that learning other aspects of the Gospel is wrong. If that were true the Gospel Principles book would only have contained lessons on these 4 things. But what I am saying is that none of us are perfect in these 4 areas and that if we choose to study other topics, we must not allow our study of the basics to fall by the wayside. It is that important. The eternities and where you fit into them rests on this point. Until tomorrow.

A Broken Heart and a Contrite Spirit

Today I read Hebrews 9 which is all about the covenant Christ made with Israel and how He fulfilled it during His time here on earth. Paul talks for a bit about the tabernacle that the Israelites had in the days of Moses and how it was built by hands and then states that Christ enters into the tabernacle made without hands, or our hearts.

Each of us needs to take the opportunity to allow Jesus Christ to enter into our hearts. We do this by performing the ordinances He has asked of us and by offering up an appropriate sacrifice of a broken heart and a contrite spirit. That is a phrase we hear often in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints but I wonder how many of us actually understand what it means. What is a broken heart and a contrite spirit?

To be contrite means to show remorse, or sorrow for what you have done. It means to be repentant and to have Godly sorrow. It means to have the desire to change and to be better than you currently are. It means to have the desire to be as Christ is, to live with God again and to make the changes necessary to become as we need to be in order to abide His presence and live with Him again. In other words, for Him to work the change in us so that we can become as He is, we need to offer up our pride, our sins, everything that we are that is not in harmony with Him and His teachings. God cannot abide sin in the least degree of allowance. Even any sin at all would cause Him to cease to be God. So we have to be cleansed every whit from sin if we hope to become as He is.

Jesus Christ offered Himself up as a sacrifice for us so that we might be able to return o live with Him someday. It was always the plan that He would do this. We all agreed to it. In order to take full advantage of what He did, we have to want it. We have to want it as badly as we wanted to do the sins that caused us to need the Atonement in the first place. That is what it means to come to Him with a broken heart and a contrite spirit. It means to want His will to supplant ours. A broken heart I have always felt to be self explanatory. When you have a broken heart you feel like you have let God down. It's the same feeling any teenager has felt when the love of their life, so they think, has spurned them. It is what turns us to God in the first place, that feeling of loss and helplessness.

Jesus Christ is the author and finisher of our salvation Paul says. We need to do things His way. That is going to be very hard for some people, especially those who have a sense of entitlement about them. But unfortunately for those whose pride gets in the way, it most certainly is God's way or the highway when it comes to salvation. As Elder Jefferey R. Holland so eloquently put it not too long ago, the Gospel of Jesus Christ is not a fast food outlet, we cannot have it "our way". We must do it the way God has prescribed and we must be willing to shun all evil and offer up our sins and our pride as a sacrifice. Once we do that, we will be worthy to enter into His presence, His rest. Oh what a wonderful day that will be. Somedays I really long for it. Until tomorrow.

The New and Everlasting Covenant: the Gospel of Jesus Christ

Today I read Hebrews 8 which talks about Christ making a new covenant with the Israelites that is different from the one He made with them when they could not abide His law when Moses was around. As I read the chapter I kept wondering if it was the New and Everlasting Covenant or something different all together. As I got to the end of the chapter I still didn't have an answer but my hunch is that it is the New and Everlasting Covenant, or the Gospel of Jesus Christ since the Israelites don't currently accept Jesus Christ as their Savior.

It makes me wonder if the those who belong to the Jewish faith in this day and age don't believe that Jesus Christ was/is their Savior out of habit because for 2000 years the Jews have said He is not, or if they really and truly feel He isn't? I suspect it has more to do with habit and the fact that it is probably ingrained in them that "Jews don't believe in Jesus Christ". I suspect it's kind of like most Christians and the sacrament or baptism or any of the other ordinances that most Christians only do because that is what Christians do, not because they understand it and accept it.

Such "faith" is typically called blind, or blind obedience. Latter-day Saints are often criticized by others saying they have blind obedience to the Prophet and the Quorum of the Twelve. And I will agree that there are some that most likely follow and do as they are told without thought or question. However, the rest of us, we either take the time to pray about what we are being told to receive that confirmation from the Spirit or we feel the Spirit testify to us as soon as we hear it that it is the word of God. Also, there has not been an earth shattering revelation from the earthly leaders of the Church in quite some time. All the things we are told in General Conference are things we all know we should be doing anyway. It's hard to be blindly obedient when you are only following what any person can read in the scriptures anyway!

Each of us must make the choice for themselves whether to accept the New and Everlasting Covenant or the Gospel of Jesus Christ, no matter what nationality we are. We all have the opportunity to accept or reject the Gospel of Jesus Christ. God is fair and just and will not deny anyone the opportunity to hear the Gospel, even if it is not in this life. God is merciful as well and give us the opportunity to repent of our wrong doings through the Atonement of Jesus Christ. We only have to offer up a sacrifice to Him of a broken heart and a contrite spirit. That is not so much when you consider all He has done for us. Choose eternal life and eternal happiness. Accept the Atonement of Jesus Christ. Until tomorrow.

The Melchizedek Priesthood

Today I read Hebrews 7 which is about Melchizedek and the Melchizedek Priesthood. I have heard a lot about Melchizedek in my life and several conspiracy theories about him, most prominent is that Melchizedek and Shem, the son of Noah, are the same man. When I attended BYU I had the wonderful opportunity to attend a class on the Pearl of Great Price taught by Dr. Robert Millet, who is very well known among the scholar community of the LDS. He has written several books and is a fantastic teacher. But on the subject of Shem being Melchizedek, he stated that he will not be surprised either way. When he passes on and is meeting all the great figures from the Bible and Book of Mormon and he comes across Shem and he asks him if he is really Melchizedek, whether he gets a yes or a no answer he will not be surprised. That's kind of how I feel about it too. I could make the case for it being either way.

However, this chapter is chiefly about the Melchizedek Priesthood and the Oath and Covenant that go along with it. Paul makes an excellent point here that some might wonder if the Melchizedek Priesthood is really necessary. Paul points out that the Melchizedek Priesthood is necessary for salvation. He states that if perfection could come by the Levitical, or Aaronic Priesthood, what need would there be of a High Priest of the order of Melchizedek? The fact of the matter is that the Aaronic Priesthood is the preparatory Priesthood and is only able to perform the ordinances of this world, the sacrament, baptism by immersion, exhorting members to repentance and so on. The Melchizedek Priesthood however is able to perform the ordinances of eternal life, temple ordinances, eternal marriage, and bestowing the Gift of the Holy Ghost.

Like Abinadi told the priests of King Noah so many years ago, salvation does NOT come by the Law of Moses, but rather the Law of Moses, which was officiated by the Priesthood of Aaron, is meant to point the way to Jesus Christ and His Atonement. Jesus Christ is the way, the truth and the light the scriptures say and it is only through Him and His sacrifice that we are able to return to live with God one day. He is the author and finisher of our faith. We know the truthfully the Priesthood is His, but we call it the Melchizedek Priesthood to avoid too frequent repetition of the Savior's name, out of reverence to Him. Without the Melchizedek Priesthood and the saving ordinances it gives, we would be lost just as surely as if the Atonement has never been accomplished. We need to make sure we treasure the Priesthood and the eternal life it makes possible. Without it and the Atonement of Christ, this life is meaningless. I invite you to give thanks tonight in your prayers if it has been awhile since you last did so. I know I will be. Until tomorrow.

Choose to be Happy and the Sons of Perdition

Today I read Hebrews 6 which talks about the Sons of Perdition. I have always wondered how someone can do the things it require to become a Son of Perdition. Paul says that the Sons of Perdition crucify the Savior anew and putting Him to open shame. These are those who know for a fact that Jesus Christ lives and is real and yet they go about actively trying to stop the work of Jesus Christ and proclaiming He is not real and does not exist. Such mockery and downright snubbing of Jesus' goodness and grace is not tolerated by God, nor should it be.

We don't typically talk about the Sons of Perdition because it is not a happy topic and because most of do not need to worry about becoming a Son of Perdition. Not only that, but it is a fact that what we focus on will be what we aspire to. That is why we always hear Conference talks about what we should be doing and how we should be behaving. It is SO important to make sure we are focused on the things of the Savior and doing what we should be doing. The scriptures say that where our treasure is there will our hearts be also. This also applies to doing what is right and living the Gospel.

When we have our hearts focused on the things of the Spirit, we will be more happy and more content with life. We will not flutter about and go from every whim of fancy that strikes us. The Gospel provides stability and helps us know what the best thing for us to do and what for us will make us truly happy. It is always up to us to choose what path we want to travel and what we want to be doing. But why would we choose anything other than happiness? Most do and I never can understand it. I am so very thankful that I have known about the Gospel my entire life and I did not have to search for it. I am truly fortunate to have the Gospel in my life. I hope you too are happy with where you are in your life, and if you are not, change it. Until tomorrow.

Called of God

Today I read Hebrews 5. I have always liked Hebrews 5 because it talks about listening to the Spirit and being called by revelation. I have always found it so interesting that so many of the Christian faith who become ministers or preachers talk about hearing the call and being called. I have always assumed this came from a misinterpretation of verse 4 which says that no man taken this honor unto himself but he that is called of God as was Aaron. What most people forget though, is Aaron did not "hear a call", but rather his call was communicated through his Priesthood Leader, Moses.

When Moses was at Mount Sinai and conversed with the Lord face to face, he was told to ordain Aaron and his sons. This is the true meaning of this verse. We are not to volunteer our services when it comes to service in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Rather we are called by our Priesthood Leader, be that our Bishop, Stake President or even higher up the ladder. Even Jesus Christ was chosen. We are told that God asked who to send down to earth to be our Savior and Jesus Christ volunteered, however so did another. And it was God that ultimately made the choice and chose Jesus over Lucifer.

Some might state that our missionaries are volunteers and not called of God. But those who think such forget that God has said through His Prophets that every worthy 19 year old man is called to serve a mission, that it is a Priesthood obligation. The filling out of the application is merely our way of notifying the Apostles and Prophet that we are ready. They then go the Lord and He ultimately makes the decision where that missionary will serve. This is just one more example of the correct order of things and as we know God's house is a house of order.

I also like this chapter because of verse 8 which in talking about Jesus Christ states that though He were the Son, He learned obedience by the things He suffered. I have always taken this to mean that despite His divine nature, Jesus Christ still had to go through this life just like all of us do. Nothing was given to Him that isn't given to us. He had to learn line upon line, precept upon precept. He just learned it a lot quicker and had divine teachers. So I guess you could argue that He had a leg up on us. However, the fact remains that Jesus had to go through this life just like all of us do. Despite His divinity, He had it just as hard as us. This was of course by design so that He would know how to succor us in our infirmities and weaknesses. There is someone that knows EXACTLY how we feel at any given time. Some people get really upset when other presume to know how they are feeling, however, Jesus truly does know. He's been there and felt it before.

He understands us and is there for us. If we will just reach out through prayer, we can be comforted in our time of need. But going back to the scripture itself, Jesus had to learn to be obedient just like we do. He had to learn to put His desires to the side and do what Heavenly Father wanted Him to do. We know from the scriptures that when it came time to perform the Atonement, He didn't want to do it. He had to put aside His own desires and do what God wanted Him to do. If we want to be like He is, we will have to learn to do the same. As always though, the choice is ours and we are not forced to be like Him. But it is the only way to true and eternal happiness. Until tomorrow.

Christmas Day

Today I read Hebrews 4 where Paul talks about entering into the rest of Heavenly Father. On this day where we commemorate the birth of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ it got me thinking about God and His mercy. Those of you who read this and are parents know that there is no love that can quite compare with the love you feel for your children. It transcends everything and if it were possible you would shield them from any pain and suffering that they would ever have to go through.

Now, times that love by a thousand and it probably won't begin to be what Heavenly Father feels for us. Heavenly Father has known us far longer than any of us have even been alive. I personally don't see how any love could be stronger or more pure than what I feel for my little girl, but I believe that Heavenly Father's is. I believe that He would literally do anything in His infinite power to help me if He thought it was for my benefit. What Heavenly Father DOES have that I do not, is perspective. He understands what is best for me and while it may pain Him to see me suffer, He knows I will be better for it. Just like a parent must watch their child suffer through a shot because he/she knows it will help the child in the long run and potentially save their life.

Heavenly Father loves us enough that He allowed His Only Begotten Son, Jesus Christ, to come down and suffer all the pain, agony, sorrow, loneliness, emotional torment and every other painful emotion that man can feel, so that we might have a chance to return to live with Him. Paul talks about entering into God's rest, or in other words, partaking of Eternal Life, the kind of life God enjoys. When we do what He asks of us, and accept the Atonement into our lives, it will change us, literally. We will be a different person. I look back just 8 short years ago and I am amazed at the memories that I have and that they are me. Songs I used to love now cause the Spirit to leave. Movies and TV shows I enjoyed, I now cringe and think, "I used to watch this???". I am a different person than I was then. I'm closer to the Spirit now and it is largely due to the positive influence of my wife. Never underestimate the influence a righteous woman can have over a man! I don't know where I would be without her help and her companionship.

God loved us so He sent His Son, the Hymn goes. And it is very true. God sent His most precious treasure, His only physical Son, in this life, to earth for the sole purpose of suffering and dying. Jesus had nothing to learn but everything to teach. He did it willingly, for you and for me. I truly believe that in the throes of agony during which He took upon Him our sins and pains, He reminded Himself why He was doing this and thought about us individually. Don't let that be in vain. Accept His sacrifice into your life and allow it to change you for the better! On this most holy of days where we celebrate His birth, even if it wasn't December 25th, take a moment to say a prayer and thank Heavenly Father for what He gave up for us. His most precious Son. Until tomorrow.

Admonish Thy Brethren in Humility

Today I read Hebrews 3. The verse that jumped out at me was the part about exhorting one another daily lest any of you be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin. This is important but can really backfire on you. I remember once in college I had two roommates who were brothers and we were very good friends. We lived in a townhouse that was 3 floors for 4 months, just the 3 of us. After that year I went to live for the summer at their house and work on their father's farm. One day I remember we were eating lunch at a local fast food place and one of them got a drink of iced tea. I tried to kid with him that he didn't need such things as they were against the Word of Wisdom and he totally flipped out on me. Called me self righteous and told me that my soda I was drinking was just as bad for me as the tea was and told me to stop being holier than thou. I was actually pretty hurt by it and how angry he got about it when I was trying to help him live the Gospel.

Now life went on and our friendship continued unmarred but I was shocked how he had reacted to my statement and it has been my experience that most people who are not doing what is right react that way. They are very quick to point out what you are not doing right because what you are saying cuts them to the core. Nephi said that the wicked taketh the truth to be hard because it cuts them to the core. And it does. No one likes correction because we have to admit we are doing something wrong. The natural man does not like to do that at all. But as Paul says, we are to admonish one another. One of the recent talks in this past General Conference, I think from Elder Ballard, stated that when we fail to correct someone who is doing that which is wrong, we are thinking more about ourselves than we are about them. And truly we are. If we fail to give correction because we are worried how they will receive it, how they will react to it, we are more worried about our own feelings than we are about the well being of that person.

Some may think to themselves it is not their place to admonish because they are not the Priesthood leader or that they should not say anything to the other person because they have their own problems. The whole beam and mote idea, who are they to admonish when they have their own issues with following the commandments. But I think that is the wrong idea to have. For one thing, we should help succor and uplift where we are strong and ask for help where we are weak. To me that is not focusing on the mote in your brothers eyes. That is instead looking out for the well being of your fellow men.

It is a fine line to walk that is for sure and we need to make sure we are doing it for the welfare of the other person and not out of a sense of haughtiness. The way to make sure you have the right intention is to make sure you are trying to cultivate a feeling of humility about you. As you strive to be more humble you will be able to look upon your fellow Saints with a sense of love and care and will know how you can help them. We will see them as Jesus sees them as our fellow brothers and sisters. I think the other half is to make sure we don't overlook our own sins, for they are many. Each and every day we need to make sure we are repenting of what we have done wrong because we are not perfect. As we work towards perfection however, we will have the Spirit about us all the more and will cause those around us to want to be better. They won't be able to help themselves, it will be a natural reaction. Wouldn't it be nice if that was the goal of everyone on earth? What a world that would be! Until tomorrow.

Finding Common Ground

Today I read Hebrews 2 and from the moment I read the chapter heading I had one thought, and that was finding common ground when teaching the Gospel of Jesus Christ. As missionaries for Jesus Christ we were taught when learning the most effective way to teach the Gospel of Jesus Christ that it is best to build on what the person already knows. We see examples of this in the scriptures too, Ammon and Aaron do a very good job of doing this in the Book of Mormon when they teach King Lamoni and his father respectively.

Paul knows his audience, they are the Jews, sometimes referred to as Hebrews. He knows that they have always been looking for a Messiah, or a Christ to come. He is trying to help them understand that Christ has come and has redeemed them, which would be a very hard thing to understand for most of them because they were looking for a militant Savior, one who would throw off their oppressors, the Romans. We all know of course that such was not the case and that Christ will come as a Savior of the political and physical sense only the second time. His first coming, He came to save our souls, our bodies and our spirits.

Paul continues his introduction of the Savior and his re-enforcement of who Jesus is to those who already believe and trying to convince those who don't believe yet. Surely Paul knew that his words would not reach only those who already believed, much like our own modern day Prophet and Apostles know that their words for General Conference are heard by those who are not of the Latter-day Saint faith as much as they are heard by those who are. But that is one of the reasons our speakers in General Conference focus on the basics of the Gospel. It is the common ground that 90% of all Christian faiths agree on.

When we find the common ground that almost all people can agree upon it is easier to help those who are unfamiliar with the doctrine to come to understand what we are trying to teach. It can take some time to make sure that we are communicating effectively and to really find where someone already understands, but it is very worth it when you do finally find that common ground. When you can see that light of understanding come on in someone's eyes who is truly trying to understand what you are teaching, it is a feeling unequaled in this world! Until tomorrow.

Jesus Christ is Special

Today I read Hebrews 1, Paul's opening to the Hebrews that is all about Jesus Christ. I sometimes in the past, and imagine others have as well, wondered if Jesus is really all that special. What I mean by that is, could any of us have done what He did if we had been in the same circumstances as Him. I think Paul's point of this chapter is that Jesus Christ IS special.

Paul points out that none of the angels and none of the rest of us are going to be rewarded the way that Jesus has been. This is because of what Jesus has done for us. Because of what He did, we will all be able to return to live with God someday. We know from the scriptures that Jesus was our elder brother in the Pre-earth life. From modern revelation we have been taught that Jesus was the first Spirit created by Heavenly Father. He had the longest to prepare for earth life and He was the most obedient. He was uniquely suited to performing the Atonement because of who He was.

He was the Only Begotten of the Father in the flesh. He is the only person in the history of the world to have Heavenly Father as His literal father. This is what enabled Him to perform the Atonement and to be Resurrected. He was able to never make a mistake because the veil had been taken back. He knew who He was and was able to resist everything that came His way. So perhaps if we were given all the same opportunities we could have done it to, but the fact of the matter is, He is the one who did it. He volunteered. He came down and made it a reality. He is that special because He is the one who did it.

I personally am really grateful to Jesus Christ for what He did for us. Paul is writing to the Hebrews who most of them don't believe that Jesus is the Messiah. His purpose is to remind those who do believe and to convince those who don't. Jesus is the Christ and He did come down just to save us and if He hadn't, our lot would be very pitiful indeed because we would all be cast off. Thank heavens for Jesus and for His love for us. I don't even want to contemplate where we would be without Him. Until tomorrow.

Brothers in Christ

Today I read Philemon and the part that stood out to me was the part about being a servant or a brother. It reminds me of Joseph Smith in the Doctrine and Covenants. He starts out being addressed by the Lord as Joseph my Servant. Later the Lord addresses Joseph as Joseph my Son, and finally as Joseph my friend. The reason I bring this up and why I think I thought about it is because of Paul's verbiage how he starts off referring to Philemon as a servant but then changes to his brother.

This is because when you experience certain things together, it changes your relationship with that other individual. Anytime you experience something traumatic it strengthens the bond between the two individuals and one can't help but grow together. A good example of this is missionary companions. After my mission I lived out West for a number of y ears attending school and experiencing life. There were quite a few times where I went to an old mission companion's home to visit him. After the first time I did that, he thought it was very amusing because his family was confused. He said that I'm not the normal type of person that he usually hangs out with but they can tell that we are very close and best friends and so it confused some of his siblings, not so much his parents. But it's almost impossible to go through something with strong emotions connected to it, like a mission, and not develop good, strong bonds and ties to the other person.

This is why Paul calls Philemon his brother, for he is his brother in the Gospel. We are all brothers and sisters in the Gospel as we are all in this together. Each one of us has a responsibility to share the Gospel and to live our lives as an example of the Gospel and its blessings. It is very important that we look upon each person as our equal and that we have true humility and not lift ourselves up, even in just our own eyes, but rather that we recognize that we are all beggars as King Benjamin put it. We are all equal to each other in every regard and should not allow our worldly status to puff us up and look down on others who do not have as much worldly status as we do. We are all brothers and sisters in the Gospel of Christ and that is what is important. If we treat each other like they are our brother or our sister, no matter what, then we are going to treat them with the respect that they deserve. We will treat them the way that Jesus does, the way He would if He were here. Until tomorrow.

Meekness

Today I read Titus 3 Paul's closing to Titus. The phrase that stood out to me was Paul's counsel to Titus to be meek. It got me thinking about meekness and the world. Meekness is not a quality that is really prized among the worldly, which is sad because if we were all meek then there would be no crime and no contention. But in the world's eyes meekness is a synonym for weakness.

I looked up the definition for meek just to make sure I had the right one and its most common definition had to do with being submissive when under pressure. However, the one that I like and that I'm sure Paul was using is gentle and docile. Can you imagine if everyone in the world was gentle and docile? They would be slow to anger and would be a lot more pleasant to be around. I remember the first time I met my father-in-law, my wife, at the time fiancee said that he described me as a gentle-man. I mistakenly thought he meant gentleman but then my wife clarified saying no, he meant a gentle man. In a word he was calling me meek. I took it as a great compliment and so should any person described as such.

I don't know where this idea that we have to be macho men came from but I guarantee if we had to pick one of the two terms to describe Heavenly Father we would choose meek over macho. And since our goal is to be like Him, shouldn't we strive to be meek? And truly what is wrong with being gentle? You might get mocked for it but so what, let it roll off you like water off a duck's back. We should not be worried about the world but rather what God thinks about us. We should cultivate the qualities that Christ has and let the world fend for itself. As for me, I am going to emulate the Savior and I think we can all agree that meekness was one of His qualities so I want it counted as one of mine. But I guess everyone has to decide how they want to be for him/herself. Just decide quickly, time won't wait forever. Until tomorrow.

The Most Important Work You'll Ever Do is in the Home

Today I read Titus 2 and the part that impressed me the most was when Paul was telling Titus to teach young women to be virtuous, discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, and obedient to their own husbands. I am reminded of the scripture in Jacob 2 in the Book of Mormon where Jacob tells the Nephites, and us, that God delights in the chastity of women.

I have always been tickled by women's liberation, as it is called anyway. It has always made me laugh. Now, don't get me wrong, I am most certainly glad that women can vote and are no longer treated as second class citizens, but the fact that women need to be "liberated" from being a mother or a wife is quite humorous to me. I mean, does a man ever get liberated from being a father or a husband? Of course not, but then again, women's liberation was actually from being a mother who stays home with the children. As if any career outside the home is going to be more important than raising good and righteous children. Why do we hunger for the praise of man? The answer of course is because we fear man more than we fear God. We should only be concerned with what God, and our spouse, think about us.

I most certainly believe that the most important work anyone will do is within the walls of their own home. This is true regardless of gender. I don't care if they are the President of the United States of America, if that man is not a good father, he is failing. That is why I don't really ever want a position of power. It tends to come with certain expectations that they will sacrifice everything for it and quite frankly, the most important thing to me is my family. I want to be able to spend time with my little girl and my wife and that is more important to me than earning tons of money. Children don't want every toy under the sun, they think they do, but what they really want is to spend time with their parents. President David O'McKay once said that no amount of success can compensate for failure in the home, or something close to that, and he is right.

Raising good and righteous children who know and love the Lord is every parent's number one responsibility. And the ones who have the most influence over making sure that happens is the mother. It's extremely challenging if not impossible to make that happen if the mother is not at home but instead out proving something to herself that she can make it in the corporate world. Now, I do not want to beat down those whose situations require two incomes out of necessity. There are those families that the father cannot find work that will pay sufficiently so that the mother can remain home. Rather I am talking about those where the mother works because they want to maintain a certain lifestyle or because they desire the praise of man. If there are children under 18 in the home, the mother's place is in the home. Now, I don't see a problem once all the children are school age to having a part time job so that the mother can be doing what she wants to do while the kids are at school. But I really do feel it's that important for the mother to be home with the children if they are home.

Women control so much in this world, far more than they realize. If all the women were to stand up and decide that the praise of the world did not matter, then this nonsense that a women is only worth something if she has a career would go away. But just as we can't change what is right and what is wrong by legislation, it doesn't make it right for women to leave the home when it is not necessary for a career just because everything thinks it's ok. God sets the standard for what is right and through His servants the Prophets we have been told that if at all possible the woman's place is at home raising the children with the help of her husband. I don't see how any woman can find that unrewarding to watch their children grow up in the Gospel. For me, being a father is SO much more rewarding than my career outside the home. Watching my daughter grow up and say prayers with us as a family is a wonderful thing that I wouldn't trade for anything. I hope you too are having those experiences. Until tomorrow.

Ther Pure in Heart find the Pure in the World

Today I read Titus 1, Paul's letter to Titus. I was impressed by part of the letter at the end where Paul says that to the pure, all things are pure, but unto them that are defiled and unbelieving, nothing is pure. I have found this to be very true in my life. I have found that people who are jaded and have a chip on their shoulder think that everyone else has a chip on their shoulder too and that nothing can be as good as it seems.

I have a friend, a very good friend actually, that no matter what someone tells him, he is skeptical. I can recall hearing stories and even watching movies where it says that it was based on true events and he will disbelieve it. Now, I grant you that sometimes, there are those shows and movies that will say they are based on true events and they are not, but even the ones that you can verify are based on a true story he will doubt it. Whereas I am more willing to believe what people tell me, perhaps even a little too willing. Some have even used the word naive. However, I think that looking at the bright side of things and trusting in the goodness of people tends to make things a bit more pleasant in general.

There's an old saying that says whether you think you can, or you can't, you're right. And I think that is what Paul is saying here also. If you think the world is corrupt or if you think the world is good, you are right. You will see what you want to see. There are good and bad people in this world and no matter what we do, we will be around both types of people. But you can either be affected by those that are bad, or you can be affected by those that are good. Which would you rather have? I know I would rather look at the world in a good way and understand that not everyone shares my belief, but I don't have to associate with them. And perhaps my attitude will be infectious, who knows? Until tomorrow.

Fight the Good Fight

Today I read 2 Timothy 4, Paul's closing to the second epistle to Timothy. Paul talks a little bit about the last days again in this chapter but it is not his main focus. He says that there will come a day when people will not endure sound doctrine but after their own lusts shall they leap to and fro and have itching ears. That definitely sounds like this day and age to me. I mean, how do people react when you try and teach them the gospel, if they'll even listen to you? I sure have.

I have also heard stories of various Christian churches that will "fire" their minister because they don't like what he was preaching and will look to hire a new one. If that is not leaping to and fro after their own hearts I don't know what is. Truth is truth and it doesn't change just because we don't like it. Nephi stated that the wicked take the truth to be hard because it cuts them to the very core of their being. I have found this to be true and not just with the doctrine of Christ. Think about the last time you were given criticism, constructive or otherwise. Was it easy to hear? Probably not. We don't like being told that we are doing things incorrectly, but sometimes that is exactly what we need to hear. But if we are on the other side of things, on the telling part, we are really doing a disservice to the person by keeping it to ourselves and by not telling them what is going on and what they need to change. We are more concerned with our own feelings than with the feelings of the other person.

The last part of this chapter that has always stood out to me is Paul's assertion that he has fought the good fight, has finished his course and has kept the faith. I remember as a missionary that's all I wanted was to be able to say I had fought the good fight and had kept the faith. It makes me wonder, what qualifies as fighting the good fight? Because Paul was beaten, shipwrecked, bitten by snakes, people attempted to murder him and all kinds of other horrible things that I am sure we don't even have a record of. So does fighting the good fight mean we have to suffer like he did? Heaven forbid! Rather it means that we must be faithful like he was.

It is a hard thing to endure to the end. We have to be completely dedicated to the Gospel because quite frankly life is interesting. The world finds all kinds of ways to distract us and make us think that the world is more fun and enjoyable than living the Gospel. For example, the world would have us believe that it is more satisfying and enjoyable to just have a bunch of random sexual partners than it is to be married. Married couples are almost always portrayed on TV as fighting all the time, never having sex and generally being unhappy. And then there are the single people on television which have sex all the time run around getting drunk, another method of the world to have "fun", and being happy. But the truth is, the world has it backwards, wickedness never was happiness. People might think they are happy and enjoying themselves, but really, deep down almost everyone longs for the peace and happiness that the Gospel brings. They want that meaningful relationship with a spouse and they want to be able to have a family. They yearn for it because their Spirit remembers what our life was like before we came here even if our physical memory can't remember.

To fight the good fight is to remain true to your covenants and to do what is right at all times. It is not always easy. It takes work but it is the most worthwhile work you will ever do. I can promise you that. Until tomorrow.

Scriptures are for our Edification

Today I read 2 Timothy 3 where Paul describes the people of the last day and I have to tell you he is spot on! He describes us as lovers of their own selves, absolutely. We are obsessed in this day and age with ourselves, how we look, how people perceive us, whether or not someone has treated us poorly, we are definitely more concerned with ourselves than with anything else. Covetous, we talked about this one just the other day, we all want what we don't have. If you need proof of that, just go watch TV for about 10 minutes and you'll see commercial after commercial of things you "need". Boasters and proud. These two go hand in hand and if you have ever been around someone who likes to play what I call the one up game you know all about this.

He goes on to name lots of other traits that I do not have time to talk about in depth. Some jumped out at me that I thought were interesting, such as disobedient to parents, unthankful and despisers of those who are good. We definitely see all of these traits these days and it is sad that we see them in adults. These are very childish traits but we are seeing them more and more in adults these days also. However, there is a remedy for such traits and Paul tells us what it is later in the chapter.

At the end of the chapter Paul talks about the scriptures. He says that all scripture is given by God and is profitable for doctrine and for reproof and for correction. I think we don't use the scriptures enough and in the right ways like we are meant to. I think that the scriptures are meant to be a much more integral part of our lives. We are meant to spend at least 30 minutes per day studying them and some of us don't even crack open the scriptures. It always warms my heart when I am at work and I see someone with the Bible open on his/her desk and studying from it. These are men and women who know the importance of studying the word of God. They understand that the scriptures are meant for our instruction and our edification.

If we all read and used the scriptures as we are asked to and meant to, this world would be a much better place. Even without modern scripture such as the Book of Mormon, if everyone just read the Bible and adhered to its teachings this world would be such a happy place. I long for a world where that happens. But until then, I suffice it to know that I am trying to do my part to make sure this world is a better place by living the teachings of Jesus Christ. Until tomorrow.

Focus on the Basics of the Gospel

Today I read 2 Timothy 2 and I've got to be honest that nothing about this chapter stood out to me, nothing at all. There were several phrases that sparked thoughts and ideas, but they are mostly things that I have talked about in depth before. Such as the idea of avoiding contention, focusing on the things of Christ as opposed to the things of this world. All of which is very excellent advice and should be heeded by people of all generations. Right is right no matter what generation it is. It doesn't matter what the world does or thinks, right will still be right and that is all there is to it.

As I glance back over the chapter though, there is one phrase that kind of stands out to me. Paul says to avoid foolish and unlearned questions as they do gender strifes. In other words, there are some questions that we should not be asking. For example, I think an example of a foolish question would be asking where Kolob is. Or asking if Adam had a belly button, or if Jesus was married here on the earth. These are all questions that serve no purpose at all. For one thing, there is no proper answer for any of them, well except for Adam having a belly button, he did by the way, but there is no point to ask them. What does it matter to us if Jesus was married on the earth? Why does it matter where Kolob is? I can almost guarantee it we cannot see it with even our most powerful telescopes. So why bother even contemplating such things?

There is a reason that every General Conference, the speakers focus on the basics. Building up our faith, repenting of our sins. Prayer, being a good husband or wife. All these things are very basic because those are the things we need to be focusing on. No one in this life is a perfect spouse. Those are the types of things we can control. We can control if we say our prayers every day. We can control the quality of our prayers. We have control over how we exercise our faith and if we read our scriptures every day. Those are the things that will be of worth to us.

As we focus on the basics, we will get better and more spiritual. If we try and focus on the larger things that we can't answer anyway, we will only cause strife or create stumbling blocks for ourselves. Now, that is not to say that we can't ask or answer questions that don't have to do with the basics. If you are long time readers, you all know very well I like to ponder things that don't have answers to them and to try and work them around in my mind. But if push comes to shove, I will respond that the basics are where our focus needs to be, that is the only way we are going to be safe and make sure we are focused on the right things. Until tomorrow.

I am not Ashamed of the Gospel of Christ

Today I read 2 Timothy 1 the opening of Paul's next epistle to Timothy. The one part of this chapter that stood out to me was Paul's counsel to not be ashamed of the Gospel of Jesus Christ. This has been on my mind of late. I have been pondering what it means to be ashamed of the Gospel of Christ and what it means to not be ashamed.

Obviously to be ashamed means that you are embarrassed to be associated with something. So how would we be embarrassed by the Gospel of Christ? Well the first thing that comes to mind is being frightened to speak up. What have we to fear as disciples of Jesus Christ? If we are doing His work, why do we need to fear man and what they can do to us? All they can do is destroy the body, which I will freely admit that none of us really wants, but this life is temporary. Now, that is not to say that we should go around shouting from the rooftops that we are a Christian or that we are in peoples faces all the time, not at all. But it does mean that we wear our religion on our sleeve.

What I mean by that is for example, do you take advantage of situations that come up when you are offered say a cup of coffee or alcohol, do you politely decline it and leave it at that? If you do, then I would say you are ashamed of the Gospel of Christ. Those are perfect opportunities to share the Gospel and inform them why you will not partake of such things. Again, you don't have to be offensive and you don't have to look down your nose at them for doing so, but you can let it be known that you don't do those things because it is a commandment of God.

One way we can be ashamed of the Gospel of Christ is by giving in to peer pressure. If someone is doing something that you know is wrong, do you cave in? There have been so many times in my life I can think of instances where I had to stand up for what was right. I won't list any one example as I'm sure each of you has just as many and probably very similar to the ones I have had in my life. Suffice it to say, at least once a week since I have become an adult I've had an opportunity to either be an example or to be ashamed of Jesus Christ.

Sometimes it's enough to just be a good example to those around us. You will stand out as you live the Gospel of Christ. People will notice that you don't use foul language, that you don't drink alcohol that you don't do the things that the world does. When they ask you about it, that is the time to stand up and talk to them about it. That is the time to be an example for Jesus Christ. That is what it means to not be ashamed. To behave in such a way that you can spread the Gospel for Him since He is not here. Like Paul I say I am not ashamed of the Gospel of Christ. I let it be known that I am a Latter-day Saint and I am proud of it! Until tomorrow.

Love of Money is the Root of all Evil

Today I read 1 Timothy 6 where Paul closes his epistle to Timothy. In this chapter, Paul teaches Timothy that the love of money is the root of all evil. I remember when I was little I misunderstood and thought that money was the root of all evil and I was real confused how little slips of paper or numbers on a screen can be the root of all evil. It wasn't until later that I realized that money is just a means to an end, economy if you will, and that it is the love of money that is the root of all evil.

The love of money is at it's center greed and covetousness. We want what others have, what we assume is the good life. It is the love of money that causes all the great evils in the world. Murder for hire, prostitution/erotic dancing, pornography, alcohol production, tobacco farming, illegal drugs. Each of these destroys lives, some in a very physical sense, others in a far worse spiritual sense. And all are done because people love money and will do quite literally anything for it. I once heard the statement that everyone has a price, and for most people I think that is true. Their integrity is so low, that it can be bought. From what I understand, there are whole websites devoted to seeing how much money it takes the average woman to take her clothes off and be put onto the internet for the whole world to see. From what I have heard sadly all too few of them it is not much money at all. Dozens upon dozens of movies all focus on the gangster lifestyle where money is everything and if someone owes you money you destroy their belongings or kill their family members. All the worst evils in the world all done because someone wants more money.

Now, in our society money is what we use to further our economy so money is necessary and to that end we have an established societal norm that for goods and services rendered, money will be paid. This is colloquially known as work. When we have performed an agreed upon service, our employer pays us accordingly. The problem comes when we get greedy. It never fails to amaze me the greed of some of these big corporations and the people at the top. I honestly don't see why anyone in this country needs to earn more than at the most $500,000 per year. Anything more than that is just greedy. That much money will earn all the comfort of life and then some. And yet we have people earning in the millions and millions of dollars each and every year when that money could be put back into their company to improve production, or even better, pay their employees a little more.

I could probably go on for quite a lot longer on how correct Paul is but frankly, I would honestly just be repeating myself. I have always been satisfied with what was enough for me and my family to live comfortably and pay all of our debts. I don't need to be rich and I'm not sure I would know what to do with myself if I did. In the end what is important to me is spending time with my family, not how much money I earned. That is how I spend my time and I don't care how important my job title is, nothing will ever come in the way of my family and family time. Until tomorrow.

A Good Woman is a Treasure

Today I read 1 Timothy 5 where Paul talks about caring for the widows and the proper manner of life for women. I imagine that this chapter causes quite a stir among those who find it debasing for women to be a stay at home mother, as Paul counsels women to marry young, bear children and guide the house so that the adversary can find no place in it. I really liked this verse for 1 very important reason.

I have always been baffled at women who date and marry men that they know are bad men. Men who have really bad habits and yell at them and treat them really poorly. I remember one of my own girlfriends from college had dated a bad boy just before she met me. I asked her why and she said at the time she had thought she could help him. When I met my wife and asked her about this strange phenomenon she said that a lot of women will date a man not because of who he is now, but because of who he can become later. I told her I thought that was silly, that if you can't live with what you have now, how are you going to stick around for when the later comes around. My wife also told me that for a lot of women it's a pride thing, they think they can change the man in question. My wife even admitted to at times thinking she could change certain habits of mine.

I laughed when she told me this and said that was just silly. That no woman( or man for that matter) can change a man(or woman). It is impossible to change another person. Only that person can change him/herself. However, a good woman, can cause a man to WANT to change. I remember when I met my wife and she found out that not only did I watch rated "R" movies, that I had quite a number of them in my DVD collection, she did not ask me to get rid of them right away, but rather stated they would need to be gone before the children came along. I readily agreed as I knew I shouldn't be watching such movies anyway. Well it was not 2 days later when I went to the temple and decided that if I was going to get rid of my rated "R" movies some day anyway, why not just do it now. So I went home and packed them all up and got rid of them that day. My wife, at the time just my fiancee, was shocked. She couldn't believe that I had done that. When she asked me why I had done it so soon, I shrugged and said that she made me want to be better than I am.

A good woman, or even a good man, can make a man, or woman, desire to change. I remember watching the movie Big Fat Greek Wedding with my wife and I remember the mother tells the daughter that while the father may be the head of the family, the mother is the neck and tells the head where to look. I thought that was a perfect analogy! A good, righteous women does more for this world than any two men combined. The priesthood holder may be the head of the family, but often times it is the wife that urges the family to have family prayer and family scripture study. It is the wife that is the teacher of the children since the husband has to work and doesn't get as much face time with the children. A good, righteous women most certainly guides the family and can keep Satan at bay. I am constantly in awe of my wife and what she does day in and day out. I could not do her "job". I am not built for it. She has so much strength and so much of the Spirit in her it amazes me all the time. She never fails to point me in the right direction if needed and to support me, even at the cost of her free time. She always supports me in giving service and in fulfilling my priesthood duties. She reminds me of things I have forgotten and that I need to be an example to those around me. She never lets me forget to take an opportunity to teach my daughter. She is stronger than any man I have ever met in my life.

The world would have us believe that women are nothing more than sex objects. The opposite end of the spectrum is that the world would have us believe that women don't need men at all and they'd be better off without them. But the truth is that women need men just like men need women. But women are strong! They guide the family and support their husbands in their righteous endeavors and decisions. Paul is right that a good woman is meant to be married and bear children, if physically able. A good woman is also meant to help guide her husband and children in the right path and the way they should go. A good woman is God's agent here on the earth. My wife is such a woman and I thank God every day for her companionship. She is a true helpmeet and I don't know what I would do without her! Until tomorrow.